Unsaid goodbyes are very difficult to come to terms with. At the dawn of the year two of my friends decided to put a pause on communication. One of them is in a faraway land, and the other stays hardly 3 km from my hamlet. It was easy for the faraway friend to stop communication. He just stopped messaging, calling, or taking any calls. The closer one asked me not to come and gave an assortment of reasons.
I can't stop thinking about what I might have screwed up to get into this situation. But again we are in an age where home and family can engulf us. They might have just got busy. Or maybe the whack job that I am, I organically blew them up, unaware.
I evaluated a situation where I could storm into my next-door friend's home and demand an explanation. But then it might not end up good, with a high chance of me finding myself and the wrong side of the law, or at the least destroying the relationship completely.
For now, I have decided to live with unsaid goodbyes. As my wise soul sister said - It's not about you. Your purpose in their life is over.
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