A thank you note to you dear stranger

Dear stranger,

We have had a very short introduction to each other, that too I am sure we both could agree that it never would qualify as a comfortable one. You had a long trip from your home town and had come to just see me, a day not something you would agree as well spent. And I was trying hard to look fresh and 'pretty' after a 12 hour long night shift. To top it, we were swarmed by our parents and well wishers.

Being a fresh grad struggling to keep up with my new job, and bearing the blunt of internet bubble-burst, I was all starry-eyed to meet this man, someone who is adoring a estimable position in an MNC. My parents had fed me with enough stories that I was already rooting for this person in my life. Your almond eyes and warm nature managed to add some oil to the fire. I was overly thrilled when we were asked to spend some time away from the hustle bustle of enthusiastic parents.

"Let me not waste our time, I am not interested in this alliance." Waiting for the cupid's arrow, I was struck by these cold words.
"Care to explain?" I tried hard to keep my smile.
"I travel around the world. I am looking for a woman who would accompany me in my trips, and be with me. It's not right to do it to you. I would be racing against my conscience every day if I marry you."
The reply was point blank until he blurted out the last sentence. But who cares, I handled (and still does) rejections very badly.
"I love travelling. Who doesn't want to travel around the world? I could be with you. We could work it out." My voice was trailing out.

He softened. Looking straight into my eyes, he delivered what sounded like an apology.
"I decided on this meeting without knowing your qualifications. I want my wife to be an engineering graduate to match my pride. But you have done it from one of the leading colleges in the state, and you are working in a start-up. You have a long way to go. I have women colleagues whom I consider with great respect. We have had lunch table discussions on this matter. I can't be a man who would force his girl to give up her dreams. And you should not give up on it either. I will give an excuse to my parents."

I was trying to make sense of the speech he was delivering. I couldn't then. But I could now.

My married life was short lived, but I ace in my career. I love working. It gives me a sense of satisfaction. It helps me keep my head on my shoulder and clothes and food for both of us (me and my adorable child). I got laid off from my work with a handsome reparation, but I couldn't wait to get back into my job.

Dear stranger, thanks for your kindness.